Humanity

We all are sinners. whether we like it or not, whether we want it or not.Because in bible it said there ain't got no righteous man on this earth, not even ONE.Who cares if you are a govermental employee, painter, scientist, pharmacist, oculist, surgeon, doctor, pastor,school teacher, cartoonist, poet,musician, artist, reporter, interpreter, secretary, clerk, operator, model, beautician, tailor, barber, typist, stenographer, editor, actor, clown, producer, pop singer, masseur, cashier, architect, engineer, lawyer, manager, director, president, astronaut, mason, dispatcher, potter, renovator, firefighter, laundryman, hooper, hooker, florist, garderner, craftsman, carver, zillionaire, beggar, philanthropist, waiter or sabon keeper etc?Just in one simple point, simple evident, simple reason, at least one that proved we virtually are sinners is that we are HUMAN.

In genesis, made adam and eve along by cain and abel.Sin was born since men can't resist temptation(serpent's seduction), since we gave excuses to sin(the fruit looks good and sweet,if it causes death it wont exist), since we learned to put blames on others(it was serpent who asked me to eat said eve.it was eve who asked me to eat said adam),and, since we have company(adam,it looks good,surely its taste the same said eve). It takes two to fight,two to kill and two to lie. (note:case cain and abel)

After all, one question, how sin occurred? Especially in today's century, my answer'd be plainly because of ATTITUDE,or here we say HUMANITY. You can try ask yrself now, think of one of your enemies, maybe the most you hate, whoever, why?why you hate him/her that much?what makes you hate him/her? These passed few days i was inspecting each and everyone around me, and i can't help but detest some of their loathsome attitudes, and guess what? the most frequent bible verse shown everywhere possible was "love your neighbor as yourself".It is the 2nd biggest commandment in bible. Honestly?Frankly?Practically?I didn't follow.Last time i thought not hating a person was a mighty thing to do so i pretended not knowing him/her and letting 3 words:"i dun care" to settle the hidden animosity instead of hating people.But, later, i finally perceived how it wasn't the way things were done. We shan't hate anyone, yet not loving anyone. Fraternization is hard to achieve but not unable to.The aforesaid commandment, neighbor included family, friends, acquaintances, foes and strangers.Me?working on it, God, working on it.

No one wants to be friend with someone that has bad attitude. Tolerance has its own bottom line, has its own boundary. You can't afford to bear a person forever. There will be times you wanna let the person to know that he/she had crossed the line. People said,"we can't choose our family".Yes, that's right. Even for family, we can't bear them forever. Or shall i say, especially for family. The very first thing i notice in a human is always been "attitude". Personality is what makes someone hot, what makes someone easygoing. Of course we can't expect everyone to be easygoing. Because it's not gonna happen for everyone is special. They have their merits, as well as demerits. We need to learn to tolerate. But like i said,endurance has its own limit. Hence, it's all about "BALANCING" .

It's not a simple thing to please someone's heart but it sure is a facile task to piss people off. We don't have to sit down and wait for our mamas to teach us how we can irritate people.It's like a natural talent beneath in all of us. But we do need lessons, true self-undergoing experiences to instruct us on how to make people like us.Or, what are the 10 big things people hate about us.To piss people off, just being straightforward, as simple as that. Say whatever bangs to yr mind. Speak out loud. Tell people what you truly mean. Why? Because people hate to listen to truth. Instead of grouching at the back of yr boss, why don't cha just go straight to his face and let him know you hate O.T?Instead of gossiping behind the ugly fat b*tch,why don't cha just run to her and tell her she has cellulite all around her body?Instead of judging after the incident, why don't cha just lift yr pluck up,stand out boldly at the live locale, give comments,give teachings to the people involved? However, that is what human being.The boss would definitely prefer you to stay up late and finish yr work loyally without grumbles.The girl would definitely prefer you to shush yr lips without letting her know she gained weight because she could tell from the mirror herself,the problem is will she accept it or not,and it sure isn't yr business.The involved people would definitely prefer if you give some aids and not comments. Do not get me wrong.I didn't mean to tell you that you shouldn't have tell people truth. But, it depends on what events.The value, flexible is very important.I think it should be everyone's attitude.For example, if one day you get lost on the highway and asked for direction. The kind roadside man told you that you should drive yr car across the junction then turn right and straight moving till you'll see a sign board that tells you [YOUR DESTINY]. While you're on the road, exactly like the man said, you should go straight, no turning, but there got a big tree in front, or a crazy tiger was right there being hunted, blocking yr way. Suppose you follow the direction given, GO STRAIGHT. But to save yr life, instead of moving straight, you turn another safely side. A path that could probably lead you to another way but certainly not let yr wife at home down, howling like hell just because you chose the stupid way out.Just because you were following straight, following blindly and not being FLEXIBLE.Back to the crux, flexible.Try to learn to speak at the right time with the right thing, and you'll eventually see the different between those who speak with their left brains and those who speak with their right brains or sarcastically speaking, those who speak without their brains.

When people show kindness, give away yr gratitude, ain't attitude.

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